I could die at home and my cats would eat me....

You know what's awesome about being alone? You can run around in your house naked! Yes I said it and you can cook, clean and even type a blog naked. It's liberating and I love it although there is a downside to it and that is.....choking. I mean what are you going to do if you choke to death? Who's going to help you? As I was standing in my kitchen and eating a piece of ham like a starving fighter dog I almost choked. It was scary and my last thoughts as I looked around the kitchen was FUCK THESE ANIMALS ARE GONNA EAT MY DEAD BODY. I have 2 cats 2 dogs and 1 kitten. Now that kitten isn't going to get much but I'll tell you that my dog Buster can probably consume a leg at the very least. He's a fat ass, so with that being said I am going to provide a link to the self Heimlich maneuver so that you too are not faced with this dilemma of your cats eating your naked carcass one day. Your Welcome, also I wouldn't recommend eating noodles naked cause of the splash back effect or cooking with oils for that matter either cause that's a terrible burn.Unless you're into that sort of thing? To each is own eh?

SO THIS IS 40?!?!?!

Tonight I sit here outside my home in the dark drinking and smoking and staring out into the cloud covered sky. It's fixing to storm here and the clouds are starting to cover the stars and the lightning is breathtaking. I sit and I stare at the clouds taking shape as they did when I was a child and I can make forms out of them and then I think to myself I am 40 now and my kid goes off to college this fall, I am not a child anymore but far from it. I stare at the house and the light from her window and realize that soon that room will be dark and I have an overwhelming emptiness come over me. I then realize she is what has kept me grounded, sane and at times still on this earth. Without her I have no purpose I'm afraid, I mean what do I live for now? What do I do with my life? I can do anything now I guess and the reality of that scares me, because all this time I have lived my life for her and now I get to live it for me and I'm not entirely certain how to do that.

Thoughts run through my head like ..will she miss me, what will become of me, will I have enough money to retire, where will I live, how often will I see her etc????So many unanswered questions and so many possibilities and now I can feel the panic come on. It settles in my chest like an elephant sitting on me, I'm having a panic attack. Damn it not another one , that's 3 this month, this is silly. So this is 40? I am divorced for a second time in my life, I have had so many struggles, lost my tubes at 36 and can;t have more children, I let my home go to someone who didn't deserve it,I quit a job, lost another one, found the love of my life and now find myself somewhere in the middle of happy ,sad and empty all at the same time. SO..THIS...IS..40 I say again to myself. Wow ,what a fucking roller coaster, I never thought I'd make it to forty but here I am.

I write this for those of you out there going through the same thing right now. I know we are not alone and there are several of us I'm certain. This is our time to start fresh, rebuild our lives and possibly make them into what we always wanted. Now we live for ourselves and every time you look into that empty room where our babies used to be remember that another mother is out there doing the same thing and take a deep breath cause WE GOT THIS LADIES. So I leave you with this song

Friggin Friday

So I 'd like to say today just blows! It started off we me dropping a knife on my foot ..yay. Not too much damage thank he Lord. Then I come home to my A.C. broke and not cooling all while the 12 cases of wine we have are sitting in the bedroom at 80 degrees in a Texas summer. FML Then while my boyfriend is out of town and I'm stuck to deal with the mess of this a.c. business the cat Frank aka asshole decides to puke up the tuna I gave him all over the carpet in the hallway.Although I did not discover this at first as I look closer as he swats at it and that's when I realize it's puke on the floor and he's playing with it like some kind of Slingblade character. Then here's the kicker...going through menopause and then suddenly  my body says..fuck you today and I cramp violently until I want to roll over and die but still nothing happens. So in short I;m going to get drunk, FUCK THIS DAY (drops mike walks away)

Mother's Day or day of peddling our wares?

For any of you who know me, know that I am a florist and in being so I participate actively in Mother's Day as do many around the world.  It is if you will our "bread and butter" and essentially gets us through the year just like Valentine's but only more so as everyone loves their mothers but not their wives. 😆 

 (Ahem) Well then, are you familiar with the start of Mother's Day and where it originated from? It all started with a girl named Anna and her immense love for her mother who was a civil war caregiver. You see Anna Jarvis daughter of Ann Reeves Jarvis a peace activist who died in 1905 held a service for her mother in honor of her the year she died at their church because she wanted to honor her and continue her efforts and then pursued it as a national holiday with the U.S government and supreme courts although it was rejected. It wasn't until 1914 that President Woodrow Wilson made it a national holiday and from there the idea seemed to take off all over the world although it was called by different names and dates everywhere but the concept remained the same. 

That is until Hallmark commercialized it like the Satanic company they are and started to profit from it and soon all companies were on the band wagon including florists...yes me as well, to make this a selling point and alas the concept of the holiday was lost on generations. Anna even protested it on several occasions stating that the holiday was to recognize mothers with meaningful things like hand written letters and such not pre packed and produced meaningless dribble. Unfortunately she lost that battle and now we have companies all over the world shoving their products down our throats and that has become a norm for society. 

We forgot what it means to be a mom and what it means to be a child and to look up to mom and respect her and all that she has done for us. All those days and nights she worked, helped us with school work, cleaned, made lunches, broke her back and scraped and saved to do all she could to help us succeed. These days all we see on social media is kids being disrespectful to their parents and that is just intolerable. You see the little kid saying" Linda, Linda, listen..) and the (cash me outside how bow dat) stupid child who gets her own show when she just needs her ass whipped. All because we entertain this behavior as if it's comical when in reality it's sad. I do not watch anything that promoted stupidity by the way.

Parenting has gone out the window and so did our family values. It saddens me so. I would like you to do me a favor and I'm as guilty as you are of this but instead of buying her a card this year , take 5 minutes to write all the great things she has done for you that come to mind and thank her for it. Trust me as a mom we appreciate it,also take time to do nice things for her and father more than one day a year. God Bless and have a wonderful Mother's Day.

New Jeans at Nordstrom send people over the edge

So Nordstrom has new jeans that are supposedly the hip new thing in fashion. One of which is the clear knee mom jean . No shit it's a jean that looks as they put it"futuristic" as I put it "stupid". So people are writing hilarious reviews about this jean including yours truly. My review goes something like this ( I feel like a futuristic Judy Jetson , i feel like Lady Gaga , I feel like......I...feel....pretty oh so pretty and witty and bright and I pity the girl who isn't me tonight!) although they probably won't publish it since they have been deleting several. I however thought it was funny and if you get a chance google "funny reviews left about clear knee mom jeans ".

The other jean they released is the Barracuda straight leg Jeans that are literally covered in mud and they are charging 425.00 for them. You too can own a pair of jeans with artificial mud on them and look like you've done a hard days work when in reality the people who produce them work harder than you. I also had to leave a review on that as well. Mike Rowe of  the t.v. show Dirty Jobs also had something to say about it on Facebook, read what he says about them here. In fact people are taking to social media everywhere to chastise Nordstrom for their ballsy ad on their site. especially when they say it personifies the Americana look but was made overseas.

Honestly fashion these days has become increasingly stupid and the fact that the millennial generation seems to be accepting this trend just further proves to me that our society is doomed. Kylie Jenner and her Pepsi commercial is just another sad example of that. The younger generation seems to not understand how life works. God help us all

A Bump in the Road

Recently something happened in my life that has rearranged my plans for the future once again. This seems to be the going theme of my life lately. The last 2 years have been a whirlwind and I for the most part have taken it all in stride, but it's catching up to me now. I don't know what to do now, I feel lost and sad and like I'm drowning. I feel I have no one to talk to even though I'm surrounded by people who love me. Someone told me it's just a bump in the road. Well that's my entire life...one...big..bump. I just need a break, I'm tired of life and of getting the raw end of the deal. I need for something to go right and to fit in, I 'm tired of feeling out of place. I just want it to end sometimes. I always put others before me but for once I would like to be selfish.  I know my life isn't horrible but it feels so alone sometimes, so meaningless. Please God help me through this and make me whole again.

College Bound Baby

This weekend my kid and I drove down to Sam Houston State where she's been accepted so we could  tour the campus. It was a proud and scary and sad day, there were so many emotions. I was standing on the campus listening to them give the tour and I zoned out thinking my baby was just learning to walk yesterday and today she's almost a college alumni. It really blew my mind how fast everything has happened. I mean 4 years ago I was taking her to get her braces checked.

It is a really beautiful campus and I am so happy she's going to attend it. She is majoring in law and minoring in photo journalism. Sam Houston is 3rd in the country for their law programs and I believe she will do well here, so don't be surprised if you see me posting a lot of Sam Houston pride this fall on Instagram because this is my life now and hopefully I won't take it too hard when she leaves me.